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My 5 Life-Saving Relationship Tips

Martin

Nov 4, 2010 — 5 min read

Here are my own relationship tips that I’ve had success with when I’ve had problems in what I thought were healthy relationships, with my past partners.

So hopefully I’ll get some feedback on the relationship advice that I’ve posted, from the ladies too.

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I know we all have relationship problems, from time to time, and those relationships sometimes get stale and it’s something that sneaks up on you both.

It’s not a fault, it just ‘is’ and certainly something to have in your mind and to keep an eye on.

Sometimes I pick it up just in time and at other times I don’t; which can cause difficulties and arguments. But anyway, you’ll know your own mutual interests and those of just her (or him, for the ladies and gays).

It’s really simple to do too.

What interests your partner – may be something as simple as shopping which a lot of guys tend to dislike. Don’t look at it as shopping but rather look at it as togetherness, closeness, and a gift – it’ll take on a whole new meaning for you.

Maybe even learn or do something completely new – never had a game of tennis or golf?

Give it a shot as it opens you both up to discovery and a mutual challenge.

Rethink the situation

You know, often when the situation gets quite heated, the first thought that comes into my mind is to simply bail out and move on and I’m sure that thought is a mutual one.

But think about this for a moment:

No woman (or man) is perfect. – Tweet This

Yeah, sure, the next one you pick up might be smarter, hornier, and even wealthier BUT you’ll soon grow tired of their crap too.

Your best move is to calm the hell down, look at what the situation is really all about and start talking to your partner and resolve things.

Yep, that old line of ‘Talk to her, calmly, honestly and openly’

Brutal Honesty

As in every relationship I’ve ever had, there’s the fighting, arguing, and screaming matches.

No relationship is perfect and situations crop up that get on each other’s nerves.

So you do resolve the problem.

Right before that makeup sex, forget the ‘I love you’ cliche and give her a jolt of brutal honesty.

“You know, beautiful, you’re the only person I’d ever tolerate talking to me that way. You’re that amazing”

And it’s true, isn’t it?

You love her and that love allows them the latitude for being frank and brutal with you – let them know that and they have a very special place in your life.

Courtesy

This is an easy one.

The journey from that first date, to where you now, have likely seen you forgetting some of those habits and rituals that you first used when dating.

You know those nice little things like bringing her flowers, resisting that male urge to fart in front of her, or even opening the car door for her.

You’ll be really surprised how much the chivalrous rituals of old times really do have an impact on your ladies’ happiness so reinstate some of them for her.